im so sad :(

[ceriux]

ok i got something very serious to talk about... im 16 and ive been with this girl for about 2 years but .... i asked her to marry me not to long ago... and recently her mom found out something she didnt like and made her move with her dad about 500 miles away we plan on using phone calls and computer chat to stay as close as we can.... we will also have some visit's here and there .... i fear if i never get to see her ill get depressed and fade away from life "socially" and become a low life looser and just give up... we have to wait 2 years before we can be to gether for good again... im just asking for some advice imput or info or any thing that might help ... please dont make bad remarks or put me down only post if u feel u can help in one way or another ... thank you to those who do

 

[Kuroneko]

My expierence with a long-distance relationship ended in outright failure. May luck be with you.

 

[ceriux]

thank you

 

[Witness of God]

Distants cant be measured when there is commitment. Love has no boundary. Just stay strong.

 

[ceriux]

Distants cant be measured when there is commitment. Love has no boundary. Just stay strong.

thank you for your advise , ive promised her that i will stay commited to her , i may not belive in god but i do belive that love has no boundary this is the one thing i will always believe in thank you for your support.

 

[Chopsuey]

hm, i would say , keep in toch, but dont be paranoid if u guys have aset date and u miss it once, cuz then that would lead to a fight or arguement, so keep in touch when ever u can, and be patient. time will prove to be the ultament test in anythin and in the end, you will get the biggest reward yet, so stick in there, and dont get to angry, or worried about the little things.





in life, im only 15 and learned that gettin worked up over things u cant change and the little things are pointless,

 

[009]

I love help if it comes to love....

Well... First.. I think you maybe are to young to marry someone... wait to you are 18.. but that's up to you....

It's not good that she live that far away.. and what you said, she would come back after 2 years?... well.. 2 years is a long time.... You are 16, maybe you could move out form your mom and dad and over to the place where she lives.... and if she is 16 to.. then she will be 18 when she can move from her dad.. so she could move into you..... and if you wait the 2 years.... Then i think you will loss her... maybe your love to her will.. Or maybe her love will loss...

As Kuroneko said.. long-distance relationship ended in outright failure.

And I think he are very true about that...

And 2 years are long time....

If you dont move.. Then I think you will loss her...

Ask your mom and dad if you can live some place there.. they could help you get in a school some where there.. and a place to live... But if you move... Then you got another problem.... you friends...

And here you deside what you love must...

Your friends or Her.... I do think you have friends..

But real friend will understand... You and her could move back again together....

I realy hop you and her make it....

I know about "long-distance" it's realy hard... Trust is must important.....

If you love her long enough, and you not are with her. then you will understand what I mean with trust...

(Sorry for my spell mistakes.. I hop you understanded)





I hop you make it

 

[brucetan]

Hey bro, when i saw yo u were only 16 and you wanted to get married i was like !

Hey bro, you need a JOB to provide for your family, can you do it so young ?

You need to be responsible for 1 life if you marry her now and later maybe another 2 or 3 ?

Its not so easy to be a parent i guess ...

You'll move on bro, don't be so depressed over a gal... but hey, if your love for each other is really true you have nothing to doubt about nothing to worry about

All the best

 

[Gurluas2000]

let the dude be married if he wants to... gee

 

[TPM_Montross]

sry but i do agree, your 16, u still have a lot to learn, if it works out for you then great man, good for you, but if it doesnt, roll with it, thats life, u got to take the good and remember that you still have a lot ahead of u

 

[Witness of God]

Tu Dat

 

[Tim]

just pimp some bitches and ho's

 

[Witness of God]

:? I think you stand alone on that tim :roll:

 

[brucetan]

lol tim , ain't funny. tts lame 8)

dude, 16 u can't get married -.-"

 

[Tradion]

Legally, with parental concent, depending where he lives, he can get married. I believe it's alabama you can legally get married at the age of 12. Depends on the Statuatory law in that state, but once you can legally have sex, you can legally get married.

 

[ceriux]

just pimp some bitches and ho's

yea im still loyal to her just because im 16 doesnt mean i cant love her...

 

[Gurluas2000]

i agree with him... love can be had forever... from 0 to 9999 years.

 

[Kuroneko]

Indeed, but in some countries, 'love' under 16 isn't allowed

 

[Gurluas2000]

wierd...

in my country sex under 15 istn allowed... love can be had from always.

 

[009]

Indeed, but in some countries, 'love' under 16 isn't allowed

Where im from...

if some one under 16 have sex with some one over 16 that it's not allowed...

but it dont says about if boht are under 16 :s

im not an exprt.. but i saw for some weeks ago a police man said something like this... but didnt talked about if both were under 16.....



I think it's ok to married if you were 18..

 

[Tim]

just have some quickies in the bathroom

 

[Kengou]

Tim you're an asshole.

 

[Tim]

i have 3

 

[Tradion]

And if it was up to me, all three would be ripped together with a giant stick, the stick would then be rammed through your body, out your mouth, i'd roast your ass over a fire, and laugh at the nub who pissed me off.

 

[Tim]

sweet